Howdy-do!

Phew, I finally found the time to write after weeks of planning Rafi's party, which was a mega success by the way! I hope you guys who came enjoyed it as much as I did! Y'all can just hand me my 'Best Girlfriend of the Universe' award and I'll be on my way now! LOL, I kid! (Or am I?)

I'm honestly super happy that the party turner out really well even though the over-acheiver in me thought that it could've been better than really well. Thank God, Wani was my voice of reason to constantly keep me in check so that I don't end up being jumbled in my own plans! I'm oh so thankful for the boys to help co-ordinate the element of surprise aka the PS3! Boy, did I have a hard time trying to lie to Rafi about why my phone's always on silent mode and why I keep stuffing my phone back into my purse after sneakily reading and replying my texts. It even came to a point where he thought I was cheating on him! He's such a sweetheart, this boy of mine. *swoons* 

Now that I have nothing on my plate to fuss about, I've been filling up my time with TV shows and movies, catching up on my sleep, playing PC SIMS 3 and of course, living off my parents likka brat. Whoops. I've been meaning to start accepting job offers / interviews and continue searching for jobs but I can't bear to leave this life, oh no! I've got to get on it sooner or later but I'd probably get on it later. Maybe? But in the meantime, it's TV shows and couches for me! xo

What is Love?

“Sometimes love isn’t a fucking battlefield. And it doesn’t have to be like the movies either. I’ve heard so many different definitions of what love is. I myself have defined it way too many different ways. But I think I’ve finally come to understand that it’s unfair to tie a definition to “love”. Who are we to say that the way we love one individual is universal? I mean shit, if you and the person you are in love with never fight that doesn’t make it any less real. Or if you and the person you are in love with bite each other’s heads off that doesn’t make it any less real either. If someone leaves you it doesn’t mean they didn’t love you. Maybe you married young, maybe you’ve been with the same person for years, maybe your love life wouldn’t appear to be “exciting” to the rest of society. So what? That doesn’t make your love an less legitimate. God, I’m just so sick of everyone trying so hard to fit love in a box. It’s different for everyone. Besides, how tiresome would love be if it always presented itself the a same way. Find your own way to love, hold it close to you, and don’t ever impose it on anyone else other than the one person you share it with.”

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